Texting with Girls

Texting with girl? 

she loves you or not?

she share everything with you and you want to know if she loves you or not.  so dear let me tell you something. read it at the rest of whole. 

This her words she said to you from your own comment..

“…And i am one of her bestfriends .The hurtest thing is She call me brother.”

Yes, you fell for it didn’t you?

She tells you about all the stories about her ex boyfriends and her ex is this and that and you are there, thinking this will get you closer to her?

Man have you got this upside down.

You are what we know as the emotional tampon support for the girl. You are there whenever she wants to talk about her ex and pretending you are not into her. So she tells you her sad stories and you think she will then fall in love with you?

Your behaviour is like where you behave as a relatives or platonic friend.

You see the chemicals that kicks off in her brain isn’t the attraction chemicals. It is the chemicals of the relative, of the friend. Like women who long ago in caves with cave men but when these women desire a man, they don’t go and date their brother, their relative or that nice, good friend who was always there to listen, and is infatuated by them.

They go outside of that circle, far away to see this dude who is a lover type and he is so direct in his intention, he makes her pussy wet.

He makes it known he is into her, he is attracted to her and doesn’t talk about love until she emotionally invest, shows interest and does stuff with him.

But when you get the opportunity, oh man do you screw it up big time. You show lack of confidence. You show passive-aggressive. You show neediness and fearing she will say no to you…

“I tell her that there is a girl i love.and i just cant tell her. She always suggest that just tell her.Whenever that topic come, i always tell her that i cant stand the answer nooo......Then she said u r negative she always tell be positive”

She means you’re not confident and uncertain about who you are and what you want and don’t go for what you want. You’re scared! Is what she means. She is telling you what she values and you dont…listen!

She is telling you, “find your balls man and tell me what you want from me? Tell me where you really stand with me.”

She repeatedly asked you to tell her. You didn’t.

You tell her. You be direct. You is the…man! Lead and if she says no, good. Move on. That’s what a man does.

Yes, many will say “good man, listening to her problems.”

But you are listening to get in with her and that’s not honest. That’s not authentic. That’s why so many girls dislike the nice guy. He’s not honest.

Think about it.