Texting with Girls

Texting with girl? 

she loves you or not?

she share everything with you and you want to know if she loves you or not.  so dear let me tell you something. read it at the rest of whole. 

This her words she said to you from your own comment..

“…And i am one of her bestfriends .The hurtest thing is She call me brother.”

Yes, you fell for it didn’t you?

She tells you about all the stories about her ex boyfriends and her ex is this and that and you are there, thinking this will get you closer to her?

Man have you got this upside down.

You are what we know as the emotional tampon support for the girl. You are there whenever she wants to talk about her ex and pretending you are not into her. So she tells you her sad stories and you think she will then fall in love with you?

Your behaviour is like where you behave as a relatives or platonic friend.

You see the chemicals that kicks off in her brain isn’t the attraction chemicals. It is the chemicals of the relative, of the friend. Like women who long ago in caves with cave men but when these women desire a man, they don’t go and date their brother, their relative or that nice, good friend who was always there to listen, and is infatuated by them.

They go outside of that circle, far away to see this dude who is a lover type and he is so direct in his intention, he makes her pussy wet.

He makes it known he is into her, he is attracted to her and doesn’t talk about love until she emotionally invest, shows interest and does stuff with him.

But when you get the opportunity, oh man do you screw it up big time. You show lack of confidence. You show passive-aggressive. You show neediness and fearing she will say no to you…

“I tell her that there is a girl i love.and i just cant tell her. She always suggest that just tell her.Whenever that topic come, i always tell her that i cant stand the answer nooo......Then she said u r negative she always tell be positive”

She means you’re not confident and uncertain about who you are and what you want and don’t go for what you want. You’re scared! Is what she means. She is telling you what she values and you dont…listen!

She is telling you, “find your balls man and tell me what you want from me? Tell me where you really stand with me.”

She repeatedly asked you to tell her. You didn’t.

You tell her. You be direct. You is the…man! Lead and if she says no, good. Move on. That’s what a man does.

Yes, many will say “good man, listening to her problems.”

But you are listening to get in with her and that’s not honest. That’s not authentic. That’s why so many girls dislike the nice guy. He’s not honest.

Think about it.

Why Girls says I like you but as a friend

What if a girl tell you she likes you but as a friend, but she still gets mad when you start going after other girls?

Well let me tell you something about this. 

It’s not complicated.

It’s simple. Look how simple it is…

      1.    She tells you she only sees you as a friend

      2.       You STILL have hope in getting into her pants

      3.       So you let her talk shit to you, behave shit to you while I’m a guy who will say..

“Listen woman. I gave you the amazing opportunity to know me and date me, and be my lover. You said no. So whatever I do now, smile at girls, kiss, fuck, eat them out, whatever shouldn’t bother you. Unless it’s because you desire to date me and be my lover. So which one is it?”

Girl - just friend

Me - Good. Then behave like one or stay the fuck away.

I can say that because I don’t fear losing her. You do because you still have hope that she might change her mind.

Forget it.

Talk straight to her. Set boundaries and let her know, she pisses you off again, you ain’t no nice guy who will let her do that..

Say it in your own way, no problem.

I’m more of a direct guy and can’t be assed with any complications.

Stop letting girls walk all over you and psychologically seducing you to be passive-aggressive.

it's your life don't waste it for others , be yourself and be confident in every situations. 

How to kiss someone for the first time to make it romantic

How do you kiss someone for the first time to make it romantic?

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Let me ask you something. What gets you when you see a rollercoaster ride and you’re going to go on it?

Is it the ride itself?

No.

It is the feeling you build up before you get into the ride. It is adventure and the anticipation, the build up the fear, the happiness, the heart racing, the expectations, the ever growing need to feel special and unique.

the kiss?

The kiss is but a kiss when all you focus on is the kiss.

But not anyone, no, not anyone can capture the emotions of the person, fire up their imagination, feel their body going nuts, the amazing rush going through their body because you’re creating the…sexual….tension that makes the kiss amazing.

You are creating the romance first, the experience first, the memories first, the juicy conversation first, the capturing of the person’s emotions and their desires, flying through their mind as you pain vividly with word and physical touch first.

A kiss is but a kiss without these. These are what makes it romantic it. When you make the person feel unique and special, excited.

Any can kiss but….not everyone can make the person feel special, unique, and feeling the adventure, the excitement, the anticipation for when the kiss happens.

That’s what makes a kiss amazing ,  sexual tension.

It should start slowly. Women love it when a man tenderly places his hands on either side of her face and leans in for a slow tentative kiss. As the kiss slowly grows he moves one hand through her hair the other behind her lower back to pull her in. From tender gentle kisses of just lips you slowly begin to use your tongue, not too much, and draw hers out. Both your tongues should swirl and dance together, occasionally pulling back and nibbling or sucking on each other lips and plunging back to tongues swirling in a frenzy.

 best of luck for the first kiss.